Posts tagged ‘porn’

July 22, 2010

Porn & the moral compass

by f

I love it when the Right discusses pornography. They don’t know what to think or say. Their moral compasses go berserk and they end up agreeing with some of their feminist sisters on this issue.

The Thinking Housewife — she’s become a bit of a bogeyman for us, it seems, but she offers us such an excellent look into the ultra-conservative moral compass — posted an email someone wrote her about how wives drive their husbands to seek pornography. As someone who is hardly sex-positive, the Thinking Housewife is emphatic when responding to this email: viewing pornography is addiction and a sin. Obviously, men who watch porn do it to fill some deep void caused by dissatisfaction in relationships.

And her solution to sexless and dysfunctional relationships?

For the man who ends up with a critical and unloving wife, or a sexually inadequate wife, no matter what he does, I would say this. He does not need her love. He does not need it to be perfect or even good. He can survive without the love of a selfish or an inadequate woman. He can function reasonably well in life even so. He can find compensations for this hardship in his involvement with his children, his work, his intellectual interests or hobbies. An unhappy marriage is not the end of the world. There are worse things. We cannot find any contentment when we throw away our integrity. That is the one thing most necessary to our happiness.

This is great. No possibility of divorce, no release from a sexless, self-defeating marriage, nothing. And this is supposed to have a man’s interest at heart?

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July 20, 2010

Dear Person Whose Search Terms Make Us Sick,

by subterfusex

There are no search suggestions for 'incest.'

Our blog stats tell us that you found us by looking for, “free 13 year old incest.”

Obviously you did not find what you were after on this blog. We assume you landed on D’s post about Sharron Angle’s inability to empathize with anyone who is not her. Under normal circumstances we would consider that punishment enough, but the nature of your search requires a harsher condemnation.

What the fuck, dude?

There is no ambiguity in your search. You are looking for porn, involving a thirteen year old, and incest.

No, really, what the fuck?

(The fact that you want it for free does not improve our opinion of your character.)

We at Subterfuge are typically pro-sexuality. Whatever gets you off, it’s your business–until what gets you off hurts another person, and they are unwilling or unable to give consent. A thirteen year old qualifies as ‘unable to give consent.’ They are in the midst of puberty, without the maturity or breadth of knowledge to understand what is happening to them. Worse, you want incest, which immediately forces us to consider emotional manipulation. Such a young person is at the mercy of older family members, with an ingrained desire to be liked, loved, and accepted. It is not uncommon for those desires, when spurned, will be turned downward and this child may commit abuse against other children. Kids want to explore, and should be given room to in safe ways, but not all exploration is done in good faith. And the people who look for and make porn with such a theme are not acting in good faith.

What titillates you makes us retch. For us, the thirteen year old you mention is not a hot search term, he or she is a person with vulnerabilities that you wish to exploit. That exploitation is part of the kick.

Here is what happens when thirteen year olds are coerced into sex, rape, and incest.

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July 8, 2010

Library Pervert

by f

Warning: adult concepts

I work from a lovely library in an upscale town. Right now, I’m on the third floor. I call it Toddlerville because there are so many adorable toddlers here among the big stacks of colorful books. Hey, this environment is conducive to good output, and I get the added bonus of listening to screaming toddlers — I can’t work when it’s quiet. Sometimes, if I’m lucky, I listen in on story time!

Fifteen minutes ago, I bent over my work, plugged into Florence and the Machine. Then I had to take a sudden piss break. I left my laptop in the capable care of a sleeping toddler’s mother, and walked past a cluster of computers on my way to the bathroom. Nothing interesting to report.

Then the sight of a monitor sideswiped my right eye. I’m not sure what caught my attention first, the monitor or the man using the computer. His breaths were ragged and I felt uncomfortable. So I controlled my urge to piss like a racehorse and surreptitiously sneak a glance at the furious movement on screen. Guess what I saw?

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March 15, 2010

In my porn, people FUCK.

by d

I often hope that I’ll be inspired to write one of these entries. Usually I’m scoping out Savage Love or TheFrisky for that. I didn’t expect to find it in xkcd:

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